Can my parents teach me to drive?
Key takeaways
Supervising drivers must be over 21, have a full licence for at least three years, and avoid distractions like mobile phones
The learner driver must have a valid provisional licence and learner driver insurance
Any damage the learner driver causes will impact the parent’s insurance
Do I need a driving instructor or can I learn with a parent or friend?
Learning in a parent or friend’s car can cut down the number of lessons you need with a qualified driving instructor, saving you time and money. Yet it needs careful consideration and you both need to be happy with the arrangement.
You’ll save money if you’re not paying an instructor for driving lessons
It’s more flexible as you can go out whenever you’re both free
The experience might be less stressful for you if you’re learning with a parent
You can go out for more practice sessions and may pass your test quicker
There won’t be dual controls in the car
If there’s an accident when you’re driving it will impact your parent’s insurance
It will only work if you both get on as it can be a tense experience
You may pick up the parent’s bad habits
The pros of learning in a parent’s car
The cons of learning in a parent’s car
Should I learn to drive with a professional?
Most people use a professional driving instructor when they learn to drive. If you’re able to go out with a parent or other family member as well, this can give you more hours of experience of driving and can help you pass your test faster. If you’re deciding whether to pay an instructor or not, you’ll want to look at the pros and cons of each option first.
The instructor is qualified to teach learner drivers and will be used to lots of different driving situations
They will know what is likely to come up in the driving test
They will be up-to-date with the latest driving rules
The car has dual controls and will be insured
Driving lessons are expensive
There’s less flexibility over when you can go out in the car
It may take longer to learn if you’re only having one lesson a week, instead of going out more regularly with a parent or friend in their car
The pros of using a qualified instructor
The cons of using a qualified instructor
What legal requirements must I follow?
If you are learning to drive in someone else's car and the driver must:
be at least 17 years old
have a valid provisional driving licence
meet the minimum eyesight rules (as listed on the Gov.uk website)
have the correct learner driver insurance
You can practice driving with your provisional licence in any type of car, but it must follow the rules. The car must:
have L plates (D plates in Wales) on the front and back of the car (but make sure you remove these when anyone else is driving the car).
be taxed and have an up-to-date MOT
be safe and roadworthy
be registered with the DVLA
have an extra rear-view mirror
Most people are allowed to sit with a learner driver when they are practicing to drive. However, there are rules around this too and the person must:
be aged 21 or over
be qualified to drive the vehicle
have had their full licence for at least three years
not use their mobile phone while they are supervising the learner
know and be able to apply the rules in the Highway Code
Legal requirements for driver
Legal requirements for the car
Legal requirements for someone learning in your car
If these rules aren’t followed, the learner could be fined £1,000 and receive six penalty points on their provisional driving licence.
How to teach someone to drive
If you’re taking your child or a friend out in your car, there are lots of things you can both do in advance to make the experience less stressful.
You should have a conversation in advance to talk about what roads the learner wants to drive on, where they feel comfortable, and places where they may feel stressed or anxious. Before you head out, think about where and when you’re going to go for your practice sessions, which manoeuvres to practice and what the weather conditions are expected to be.
When you are on the drive, you’ll need to make sure you’re following these rules:
you must not hold and use a mobile phone, sat nav or tables
your alcohol level can’t be above the legal limit and you must not be under the influence of drugs or medication
the learner can’t drive on a motorway without an approved instructor in a car with dual controls
The learner drive is allowed to have passengers in the car with them and they are responsible for making sure anyone under the age of 14 has a seat belt on.
Insurance is important for learner drivers and there are a few different options for cover. It protects the driver, the vehicle, and also other people on the road and it’s a legal requirement.
Do I need insurance to learn to drive in my parent’s car?
Yes, you need insurance to learn to drive in a parent’s car as this is a legal requirement in the UK. Whatever type of driving licence you have, whether it’s a provisional licence if you’re learning to drive or full licence if you’ve passed, you can’t drive if you do not have car insurance in place.
You can be added as a named driver on a parent’s car insurance policy if you occasionally use their car. This can be a great way of cutting down your insurance costs as it’s often a cheaper way to buy cover than taking out your own policy.
However, you can only do this is the main driver (your parent) drives the car for the majority of the time. If you are added as a named driver but you are using the car more than your parent, this is called fronting and it is illegal.
If you do have an accident as a named driver, your parent will need to make the claim and it will affect their insurance and their no-claims bonus.
You could buy your own learner driver car insurance policy to cover you when you are driving someone else’s car. You’ll be able to drive any other cars with your own policy, as long as the rules are followed.
This is usually more expensive than being a named driver but it means your parent’s insurance won’t be impacted if you do have an accident.
If you only need cover for a short period, such as for the month before your driving test, then temporary or short-term insurance is an option. This could be a cheaper option than taking out your own policy which will be priced on a yearly basis.
Being a named driver on a parent’s policy
Taking out your own car insurance
Buying short-term or temporary car insurance
How do I record private driving practice?
After each driving lesson with a parent or friend, you should write down what you’ve practiced. You can then show this to your instructor so they know what extra experience you’ve had. You can print off a free driving record from the Gov.uk website or you can fill in this form online.
What do I need to do after passing my driving test?
Congratulations, you’ve passed your driving test and you have no more driving lessons! All the hard work paid off and you will now need to get your full UK licence sorted. Before you head out, you also need to make sure you have the right cover in place with new driver car insurance.
