Time with tiddlers goes so fast, my eldest is 22 now...gulp!
So sorry to hear about your Mum, thats something you are never really ready for and is especially worse if its sudden. The legal stuff tends to get in the way of the adjusting.
Have told No1 son your opinion of Exeter apple. I think he plans to go back there today. He will avoid 02.
I will keep you posted.
DD