Thank you so much for that piece of information.
But as you don't know my circumstances I don't think its your place to judge do you?
Not that I need to explain but I do work and have done all my life and brought up two children when my husband decided he didn't children anymore.
If the powers that be made him take his responsibilities seriously I wouldn't have to go 'cap in hand' to keep a roof over my childrens head! i appricate there are quite a few that abuse the system, but some of us only use it for what it was intended for help when you need it. I was seriously ill at the time I needed help.
Lets hope you can always live a privilaged life.
Thank you for your time x