thanks for the reply,Karen.the issue is she has not been bringing her child for the past 6 weeks as school has been on vacation and rightly so.
This womans argument seems to be that as the kids are on holidays,she is entitled to at least the 6 weeks money she has been receiving from the tax office(even though her receipt of this money is based on the fact that she used my wifes child minding id/number). Also child minders do get paid during holidays. she has offered to pay back the money she got from june till schools went on vacation. we have to wait and see if she does.
assuming she is right and she keeps the money for the 6 weeks holiday(school break),will the tax office expect my wife to pay tax on this money-obviously not. the tax office will therefore be giving free money to mothers during the school holidays.
i think this whole government help with child minding is completely flawed.
i hope some one has some first hand esperience with this and can share some information with me.sorry for going on for a bit too long, but this whole thing is beginning to give me headaches.