Hello backfoot,
I am new to this site and having read some of the concerns and your response am hoping that you don't feel the need to respond to any problems I post. Although the softly softly approach is not always the best course of action the cruel to be kind approach is a bitter pill to swallow especially when you have a problem. Do you believe in taking no prisoners as oppose to rational re-assurance when you have advice to input? Or as a new comer am I mis-reading you in thinking that you come across as harsh?
icc.chef