Not that it is any of your business, but the medical condition is as a result of the birth and hence the reason behind the fact that I cannot attend. My husband's condition AS I STATED is independent from my own. I can assure you it does not affect performace in the bedroom as it des not affect the appendage required for baby making- something you dont sound as if you know much about.

Why make comment on matters you dont understand?

As a matter of fact I know of 'pay as you go memberships' and they do afford you the option of paying monthly- a way of keeping up with the times.

 I did not ask whether people thought my case was deserving or not- and unless you are a qualified doctor with all of the facts in front of you, I dont see that you can make a judgement in that respect.

If you cannot make a constructive comment, then I would prefer you didnt reply to my post at all.

 We cant afford to pay the full amount in the 10 days they have given us to pay as it is nearly 3 months membership each.