I have a defaulted debt on my credit profile from Next Directory from 2006. I got the debt after an ex-partner ordered goods and refused to pay and I couldn't afford to as I was a single mum struggling with two severely disabled boys.
I avoided the debt, with all the stresses and strain of dealing with my sons disabilities until it was passed to the collections department and the phone calls, threats and harrassment started. I would receive phone calls at all times of the night and day, they would be abusive and threatening, even though I informed them of my circumstances and asked them to stop calling and contact me by letter only. After asking them to stop the calls, the calls increased to several times a day with threats that they would increase unless I paid the debt in full. I did offer a payment plan, but it was rejected without consideration and the threats continued. After a while I became difficult myself when dealing with the calls and they would leave me in tears, especially on bad days with my sons and during a time when I thought I may lose my eldest. It seemed to become a game to the tele team, one even joked about having several people call one after the other.
Don't answer the phone I hear you say, but I had to be in contact with the specialists that were dealing with my sons, hospitals etc. I couln't afford to miss calls.
Eventually after a couple of months, I moved house, changed my number and waited for them to catch up with me...18 months on they haven't, but I want the debt settled and off my credit history. I have no other bad debt, make all my payments on time, have excellent banking history, only buy what I can afford and never use credit cards or try to live beyond my means. I am petrified of contacting the collections department for fear of the harrassment and threats starting again. I am on my own, with two severely disabled boys and recently diagnosed with a severe neurological disorder myself, stress makes my condition so bad that I am totally incapacitated for 3-4 days at a time.
What can I do to resolve this and get this debt cleared with the least amount of stress for me and my boys.
The debt is for just under £1,600
Thank you in advance for any advice.