LMM59:No luck - they have left me a voicemail on my mobile saying that its a no go with the wavier of charges
Sorry it has come to this after 34 years but not surprised.
There is plenty of web guidance about "reclaiming unfair bank charges". The choice is yours to put it down to experience or to put in a claim. You gave them a chance, now it's your choice whether you show them any mercy.
Though I have no personal knowledge of, and have seen some unfavourable reports, Alliance and Leicester are running their £100 for switching offer.
Though most banks levy arguably unfair charges, NatWest/RBS have just reduced their charges to a less unfair level. In my experience you will find their customer service much better than Lloyds and their online and telephone banking streets ahead. After 34 years it's worth developing some confidence in switching. Up to you how you react to being kicked.
Switching away does not affect your entitlement to reclaim.