Lexi1: Oh My, I have just had the most amazing response,
It's good that on this occasion Lloyds have waived the totally "unfair" charges but next time they may not be so reasonable.
A few thoughts now that you have a clean sheet. If you think you can avoid being permanently in overdraft ask for an agreed overdraft. If going over is likely to happen frequently consider their Control option. You pay £10/month but lower charges, though the downside is you pay £10/month for the privelage of having your direct debits refused.
Alternatively, RBS/Natwest have jumped the gun on lower charges which they believe are closer to being consider "fair". Also consider whether a managed account service such as Think Banking would help you.