Hi! Unfortunately, GA-D did not share references about ECHR decision - I can not find it myself...

Hope, GA-D will be in contact soon via Skype; DrSilin - my nickname there - I really need help, but lawers works for judge, not for me...

Dr Silin, please let me know how you go on, we too need help.

GA-D, Please, contact me - I really need your help as my solicitor works on Court against me, and my kids sufferred grossly... I am DrSilin in the Skype,

Hello! I need this reference too - have you got it? Please, share it...

Hi, do you have a link for the info about the European ruling which declared freezing orders incompatible with UN and EC HR? A member of my family has had a freezing injunction on them for 2 years now and needs some help. Many thanks.

sent email.

Ok are you on line now?

Its on there now.

Regards

I cannot see it on the profile.

Ok ist on y profile I will leave it there for today, hope you pick it up.

S.

Hi

Sorry missed your return last night. I am 1 hour ahead of you in the UK.

I have tried to put email address on web site but it will not let me.

I have read all your points above and would like to talk to you more, if thats OK.

Many thanks S.

1. Make sure there is no assets in your name and if in doubt keep all the documentation in one place (safe box in a bank) somewhere where no one knows. Only put the details in a will.

2. Your Mother's house must not be in your name. The lawyers will seek to get your mother's house off you to get their fees. Make sure this is protected. if it is in a will make sure that the will details are confidential.

3. The pension is small but you need to ask yourself - if you moved it to a scheme say Spain - you can get the pension pot in all one go and then it will not be available to be shared. First thing - protect yourself.

4. Bank accounts in UK - make sure all empty. Accounts in other countries keep those details in your safe box. If your wife knows - close them or reduce to nil. If in doubt move your money to a new account and don't tell anyone.

5. Make sure that the boat ownership is in a company or a friend's name if possible with a charge by you over it.

6. If you are not in UK - do not worry. If you are not going to return to UK then don't worry. Unless she knows where you are then you don't have to give this information out and any divorce will go unanswered. You can get divorced by not answering but if you have no intention of returning to UK then I wouldn't worry. The only problem is your mother and seeing her.

Ok. I will pick it up with 3 hours.

Hi Again.

I have looked up the site you suggested and have sent an email , hope its right.

You mention assets in my name. I have made sure there are no assets in my name in the UK. Except my mothers home, but she has just gone into long term care for dementia and the house is for sale to pay for the care fees.If there is anything left then that will come to me. Big "if" though, she is 84 and her sister is going strong at 99!!!!

I have a small pension that is being paid to me at the moment, £120 a month, yes like most I was conned by the U pension market. (it should be paying 6 figures if you read the original docs). Will this just count as income?

I do have bank accounts in the UK but have made sure these are empty. There may be some other accounts i have in other countries, how do I stand with these?

As I live on a boat, which is capable of going any where in the world and I have no wish to return to the UK, I wonder why? It is very difficult for me to claim residency any where, in fact this would cause problems as the boat, my home, would then have to be registered in that country not a easy thing to do and would cost more than any divorce.

I had thought of just moving on. How do I stand I read a lot about international agreements that were designed for anti terrorist reasons, being used to track people down for parking tickets? is this a real problem.

My health is bad and I don't know for sure how long I have to live, it could be months or years. I really do not need this from this "Gold Digger" as it is making things much worse.

Advice to any one thinking of getting married "DONT". I see many people on my travels who treat their partners like rubbish and they are still together. I gave a person the chance of a lifetime too experience; things, places and cultures that can only be dreamed of. I treated her like a Queen, I was surly kicked in the teeth and am now being made to pay. Please learn a lesson from this.

Hi Thanks for getting back to me, again.

Is it possible for us to chat privately? I can put my email on my profile for a short time if that helps?

regards

If you are out of the jurisdiction, and you think she is trying to divorce you. you could delay it by getting divorced in another jurisdiction. If this is the case, the court will not allow her to claim assets or a freezing order.

If the marriage is over, then you need to work on limitation. As you have no kids then it makes the divorce easier. As the divorce lawyers will come after assets and their fees (fees first !!) - if you have no assets (in your name) then the court cannot make a claim (do you understand). Move your pension outside of UK if you want to keep it due to pension sharing laws. Blind companies in far away jurisdictions are good to mask assets and ownership.

As she has a non-molestation order - this is given simply because of assault charges against you- courts will do this anyway. The best thing to do is to stay away from her and control the divorce proceedings in another jurisdiction. Some jurisdictions take up to 10 years for divorce proceedings and doing this will change her mind and give you space. Remember England and Wales is the divorce capital of the world and men do not get fair hearings.

As I stated., if the marriage is over, file for divorce in the jurisdiction where you are at first, then the courts in England & Wales (if in E&W) or Scotland or Northern Ireland will not be able to deal with the case and no freezing order will follow. This is called divorce forum (google it) and if you are resident in another country, I would try and get a divorce there. You can argue jurisdiction forever.

Therefore you will be in control in the divorce proceedings and put this situation down to a lesson.

If you have UK insurance (NI's paid) - you should also claim for Incapacity / Disability allowance which can be paid throughout the EEA. You are entitled to claim if this is the case and if your medical history allows and the social will pay this even if you are in EEA.