izzeybell: Yes I have made payments in the last six years but only starting around 18 months ago, should have left it then??
What annoys me is that they cannot pursue my ex husband due to his bankruptcy.
Fair enough, that rules out the use of the limitations act then.
Yes, your Husband is covered by the "bankruptcy shield", but because the debt was joint then they can pursue yourself rather than your Ex, hardly seems fair but they can pursue both parties jointly, equally or severally for this debt.
Best solution now is either try to come to an arrangement with the creditor before it gets to court, or failing that actually go to court with a comprehensive expenditure balance sheet of your ingoings and outgoings. Asking the court after explaining fully the circumstances of how this debt came about.... to set the re-payments at amounts you can easily and comfortably afford.