Hi Twist.
The subject of the alleged misselling of IVAs has become a real hot topic over the last year or so and as a consequence there seems to be an increasing number of organisations who are contacting those subject to IVAs offering them 'solutions' which usually has some sort of fee involved.
Interesting that you ask if an IVA was the wrong option for you, did your IVA provider fully explain and explore all the options available to you, including bankruptcy?
As other posters have suggested it would do no harm in contacting the free debt advice agencies for an independent view.
Pincer